Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Akwaaba!

Welcome! I hear it almost every day. I've been in Ghana now for five days, and I'd be lying if I said it was all fun and games. In percentages, I would say it's 90% awesome, 10% difficult. The difficulty all came 24 hours ago when the homestay began.

When I arrived in Ghana I had to continually remind myself that I was in Africa. It was hard to believe that I was on another continent, in a place I'd looked at for months in anticipation. Now that I'm a few days into it, I believe it. I'm out of the hotel and into a home, surrounded by street sellers and bags of water, taking bucket baths and sleeping under a mosquito net.

The hardest part in the family stay has been the lack of the "nuclear family." They don't spend time together - in fact, don't even take meals together. You are told when food is prepared, you find it and eat alone. You don't spend time together, rather you're expected to "do your own thing." As a social butterfly, this hasn't worked very well for me. I feel out of place - but at the same time, I suppose it's an excuse to be on my own.

The program is wonderful. Today we had class at 8 am, where we had a lesson on Twi, a cultural seminar given by a Traditional Chief, followed by a drumming lesson. I couldn't ask for better classes. We went to Medina Market as well, and I finally got some money! The first two ATM's a tried rejected my card - a bit nerve racking at first, but I'm happy to have it settled.

A few tidbits (before my time runs out at this internet cafe): 1) Being white has never felt more awkward. To stand out so drastically is uncomfortable. 2) At the same time, race doesn't matter. They call me "Obruni!" (white person) and in turn I can call them "Bibini!" (black person). There's no stigma about the color of your skin, you are just a different color. 3) Running water is a privilege. 4) Accra roads are insanity. More people die of traffic accidents than diseases daily (that might be a bit exaggerated).

There is so much more, and yet only 2 minutes. I'm outta here!

5 comments:

  1. Wow Ainsley! How exciting. Look both ways before you cross the street! :) What is the food like? Can't wait to hear more.

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  2. wow a drumming lesson!! So cool! Can't wait to hear more of your adventures Ains :) Is there anyone in the family that is your age?

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  3. I am so excited that you are blogging! I think you are incredible and give you a lot of credit. You are an extremely strong, and smart girl and I know you will have an amazing experience (even when you wanna go crazy). Enjoy every moment because opportunities like this don't come often! love you!

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  4. I'm so excited to follow your adventures! Can't wait for the next installment.

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  5. You paint such a vivid picture in just a few paragraphs. It's a good thing you're such an enthusiastic traveler. Alicia and I are thinking of you and marveling that we have our dishwasher and washing machine running right now. Thanks for the reframe! Love you!

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